My initial thought is "That's certainly a good thing."
I realize the snarkiness of that, but forgive me if I don't care.
He needed to change. Desperately.
But, of course, that's only my opinion. And who am I to judge?
"He stayed with us for about a year and a half when he came back to get his papers in order."
Your poor wife. An entire 18-month span with that asshole?
What was she punishing herself for? And why were you punishing her?
He apparently hasn't changed too awfully much to infringe on your family in such a way.
He always did stretch the limits of friendship far beyond their bonds.
"Jeff has moved back to Canada from the US and is living in Calgary for the moment."
At least he's no longer a blight in my country. Though he's entirely too close for comfort.
Last I knew, he was in Las Vegas. It's been well over 10 years. Goodness, more like 13.
Where does the time go?
I do my best to be pleasant in my response. I admit my best is rarely good enough.
"It is difficult to glean your tone in written words. Do you find the change in Jeff to be a good one or a bad one? I trust you will forgive my negative outlook on this particular subject since Jeff loathed me beyond all words."